How do you feel when someone tells you, “I appreciate you when you . . . .” It probably leaves you feeling special and walking a little taller. Those words are powerful.
You can use words and appreciation to romance your sweetheart.
Keep a 3”x 5” card available. Whenever your sweetheart does something romantic that touches you deeply, write him/her a short note starting with, “I appreciate you when you . . . .” Specifically tell your sweetheart what romantic thing she/he did that you appreciated.
Place the note somewhere they’ll find it while you’re apart: a desk drawer, backpack, car seat or purse.
It’ll return the romance you received.
It’ll also grow your romance because what you focus your attention on grows. Think about it. Robert