Is there a task your sweetheart performs that you know he/she doesn’t enjoy? Use that knowledge to create a Romantic Interlude.
Next time your sweetheart’s faced with this task, offer to perform it for your sweetheart. Better yet, step in for your sweetheart. Suggest your sweetheart rest for a bit while you complete the task. Don’t make it a big deal. Don’t look for thank you or applause.
This gesture, and your attitude towards doing it, can touch your sweetheart deeply and create a shared memory. You might call it serving your sweetheart in a romantic way. Robert