Do you remember when your bestess, pre-teen friend told you a secret about themselves, something they’d never tell anyone else? Did that make you feel special?
It’s the same today. When you confess something to your sweetheart no one else knows, the vulnerability shows the depth of your trust. It also brings you intimately closer.
Ask your sweetheart if he/she is willing to play a pseudo-game of secret telling. If your sweetheart’s willing, share an intimate secret about yourself no one else knows. Then let your sweetheart reciprocate. Treat the secret with respect.
And never, ever share that secret with anyone else.
How did your sweetheart like the secret? Robert