Is there something your sweetheart has always talked of doing? Maybe painting, or playing drums, or driving a NASCAR?
Give your sweetheart a small gift which will gently put him/her in a position to make that wish come true.
For example, buy a couple painting classes or drum lessons. Purchase a gift certificate for a driving school. Buy a fly rod. Give them permission and the means to do what they’ve been putting off.
When you give your sweetheart that little gift, include a note. Let your sweetheart know you’re looking forward to seeing the smile on his/her face.
Then let them stretch themselves. And be their cheerleader.
Robert, a hopeless romantic