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Romance, Intimacy and S3%

Recently got into an interesting discussion with a friend about romance. Her concern: Men often try to romance a woman with one goal in mind. A selfish goal emphasizing short term, instant, self-centered gratification. They are looking to “get lucky”. … Continue reading

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Creating a Warm Bed

When you’re finally able to crawl into bed at the end of a long day, there’s nothing like cold sheets to keep you from relaxing. Surprise your sweetheart this evening. Warm up the bed ahead of time. If you have … Continue reading

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I Have 15 Minutes

Find a timer or a timer app. Invite your sweetheart to sit next to you. Set the timer to 15 minutes. Tell your sweetheart, “I’d really like to hear all about your day in the next 15 minutes.” Your sweetheart … Continue reading

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It’s Not The Place, It’s The Person

The sun descended into the western sky. Sand had cooled considerably from midday when it attempted to sear my feet. Pleasantly warm breezes pushed shoreward. The sun’s afterglow blazed through beaks in the clouds in sunset oranges and reds. Balinese … Continue reading

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A Romantic Hand Job

Do your hands get tired? I’ll bet the same is true for your sweetheart’s. Set out a couple pieces of fruit and a glass of a favorite beverage. When your sweetheart arrives home, gently guide her/him into a comfy chair … Continue reading

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Romantic Starter Fluid

Which of these two messages do you think would be better received by your sweetheart? What on earth did I think about all the time before you? After all these years, no matter what’s going on, I still smile when … Continue reading

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Bill Paying Distraction

Apologies for the delay in posting this. Paying bills can be stressful. The face scrunches up. The mutterings get more pointed. The blood pressure rises. Next time your sweetheart is paying bills, bring him/her a small glass of cool water. … Continue reading

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